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"Been through bad time lately with suffering with this. Dark thoughts as well. I know some posters on here suffer with this. Anyone come through the other side of this shit?

"A number of posters have been yellow carded and told to stay off this thread unless they have anything constructive to add.This is a thread that has been very useful to so many, for any other posters with scores to settle, argue on another thread. This thread is sacrosant.Thank you"

"67, you really should not read anything Wiltell ever says, I learnt that a long time ago. Probably about the time when he said he hoped I’d kill myself, just before I tried to. The bloke is scum, just don’t even read his posts. Stay strong mate, if you ever need to chat you know where I am."

"I have been getting tired of everything lately. Swings and roundabouts. Thailand is now on the red list and the my kids 19 and 20 will do their quarantine in Saigon for 14 days $51 a night we just have to say they are visiting someone on their Thai passports as they are part of ASEAN. Vietnam is on the amber so they can fly from their to LHR I got a job with Lidl warehouse in Gravesend and just renting a tiny studio flat there for £400 a month. I applied for the freezer room -25 on nights. 20 minutes warm up every 90 minutes £2 quid and hour and no one wants to go into the freezer room to see what's going . ion. i can rent a 2 bedroom house from £750 and up I have and NR interview on 22nd for Ipswich (I wont hold my breath its job for the boys) and been shortlisted for a job in Derby I got my medical records for when I apply for sickness fit benefits when the kids and Mrs are here, I was reading through my MRI head scan reports and the part of my swede that has been reduced in the part for short term memory that's why I keep losing things, I cancelled my debit cards twice and then found them both accidently. I will see a neurologist this month and get a letter Once those 3 are working I will be the one relaxing I will going to play 7s football in Penang and Saigon and buy some golf clubs"

"Manuel 7:20 Mon Sep 6 The kid has no clue of the impending change, but you crack on with promoting your child care philosophies; you never know, there could be money in it for you. I'd be surprised if the parents were not a little anxious at such a change and it is this anxiety that kids can pick up on."

"Manuel 7:20 Mon Sep 6 The kid has no clue of the impending change, but you crack on with promoting your child care philosophies; you never know, there could be money in it for you. I'd be surprised if the parents were not a little anxious at such a change and it is this anxiety that kids can pick up on."

"...and teething? You probably couldn't get away with this today, but when my first two were teething I'd dip my finger in my evening glass of malt whisky and rub it on their gums. First time was amusing as only the face of a baby tasting something new for the first time can be, but it seemed to both soothe and send them to sleep. It must be said that their mother went through the fucking roof the first time, but on trying to gather evidence against the custom, she was shocked to find out it was really quite common."

"''Starting Nursery is a big stressor for the parents before it happens'' Complete and utter rubbish, Oxsaw. It's a good, happy time for both parents and the child, you old queen. As if you can remember that far back anyway."

"Kids seem to sense anxiety in their parents, Block. Probably no use to you as a piece of information, but keep an eye on what worries you (both) and try to talk it through, even if the cause is neither of you. Starting Nursery is a big stressor for the parents before it happens, so that may be what is waking your littl'un every so often."

"Up until Saturday night he was, Sat and last night he was awake every few hours."

Is he sleeping badly as well? Broken sleep is a killer.

"goose, I know it's for his own benefit, I wouldn't have been as bad had I taken my fucking tablets and he had not been a bit rough over the weekend."

"Bolty - me and the missus were looking back and laughing about how much we worried about the first one and the stuff we used to do. Talk about over reacting!! We wasted time/money on all sorts. Anyways, the point is that it isn't as bad as you think. You'll look back on this and think ""what was i worrying about?""."

Just whomailed you mate

BLOCK!!! THIS IS MENTAL I WAS ABOUT TO WRITE THE SAME. my son starts today. I let the devil get me last night and then I had bad news about a friend so in a bad way. Whomail me ur number. Let's chat

"In pieces this morning, stupidly I forgot to take my setraline yesterday, which usually has a serious effect the following day. Compounded by the boys first full day at nursery, which wouldn't have been so much of an issue but he's been seriously teething the last few days and been very miserable which isn't him at all. Anxiety is absolutely through the roof, I know there's going to be people reading this as I've posted, who are likely to laugh or use it against me in the upcoming weeks, but if you have a kid you'll know exactly the feeling. The baby has been with us 24/7 for 10 months, to suddenly just change that is a big change. He's likely to be fine and it's probably just more me being stupid."

Westham67. How are u today mate you barrell chested beautiful man you. Don't rise to any wankers on here. Not worth it. Have you spoke to Graham lately

You really are one despicable cսnt he was in a very dark place year or or so ago.

White pony is a dubious hero Mr Chocolate. Some people thrive from attention. Just saying...

"White pony 2.39 Youre a good bloke, one of a handful. I hope your doing okay. Scuttle is a great word by the way"

"I did not read all of your post White Pony. I went to see my brother in Broadstairs this weekend. I have the Lidl interview tomorrow 2 arms and 2 legs and you are in. I applied directly for Tesco chilled and frozen warehouse in Dagenham. I have interview lined up with them this week sometime. I worked in the Tesco ambient warehouse in Purfleet for and agency and Tesco are a really good company to work for unionised , full sick pay bonuses for share increases and food discounts. I am going to call the doctor tomorrow I cannot work at that disorganised shambles again I will get another 4 days off"

"Mr Chocolate 7:12 Mon Aug 30 I'd love it, really LOVE it if I had a stalker. Unfortunately I don't."

Oxcock 1.10 I bet you are secretly flattered that you have a stalker

The last few weeks I have been rough as well white pony .

"Why don’t you scuttle back to where you came from in that case, Chocolate. Irish - same to you, fella. I’ve felt horrendously bad the past month, but a quiet week by the sea last week has helped to recalibrate a bit. Take care."

"Have a good week lads, take each day gently and don't be too hard on yourselves, you're doing great. Be kind to yourself. Things will get better"

"Have a good week lads, take each day gently and don't be too hard on yourselves, you're doing great. Be kind to yourself. Things will get better"