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"Been through bad time lately with suffering with this. Dark thoughts as well. I know some posters on here suffer with this. Anyone come through the other side of this shit?

"A number of posters have been yellow carded and told to stay off this thread unless they have anything constructive to add.This is a thread that has been very useful to so many, for any other posters with scores to settle, argue on another thread. This thread is sacrosant.Thank you"

"Thanks for the messages chaps, really appreciated. Shame we can’t chat down the pub but maybe one day soon..."

"That´s right 67. Chemical cosh, the majority, not all, of the pèople I have come across and hospitalised for Bi Polar or Mania and Psychosis are on Olanzapine. Also aids sleep, my Doctor after a review has doubled me to 10mg. It is hard work to get the correct balance of meds as every brain and reaction is different, has took me years, one hour a buzz from anti depressants that are strong , then complete lethargy from meds to slow one down ( keep stable ). Mercenary check your whomail when you have time."

The Mercernary 4:16 Wed Mar 18 My apologies mate I just read this. My condolences first of all and as Tom posted hang in there

"Condolences to you Mercernary, keep talking and there's help here if needed."

Peckham 9:49 Fri Mar 20 Olanzapine is an anti-psychotic 1 was on 10mg for over a year . I had the melt under the tongue type and I weaned myself off of them when I was working in Qatar and I broken sleep for months after coming off of them

Cheers Peckham. She’s very blasé about not taking them so I will have to take control. Cos her fella has the symptoms of the virus (he works in a hospital ffs) she’s on lockdown at the moment

"Avoid anything that could trigger psychosis etc drink etc. The switch to coming off meds can escalate dramatically quickly , unfortunately I have become dependent on meds, but they work, as in sleep hygiene, stability and the anti depressants work if strictly stick to dosages and consistent. Good luck."

"Olanzapine Bruunno. GP and epilim *epilepsy tablet but doubles as a mood stabiliser. Take care of her and sweet talk her into emergency GP appointment. Lived with some form of manic depression for years , with ups and downs a plenty."

Does anyone on here know much about bipolar? I’ve got a family member who’s going hyper and has come off her meds and I’m not sure how to help her

"On the flip side of that, I missed the brake today when reversing out of a space at work and reversed my new car straight into a massive shipping crate containing the owner of the buildings massive chandelier. Need a whole new rear bumper. They may need a whole new chandelier. Then drove like a cսnt all the way home because I was agitated and shouting at myself"

Joe C 11:29 Thu Mar 19 Sounds spot on to me.

"Thanks Joe C mate, much appreciated. My new best friend is Candy Crush - soared past level 3,000 now..."

"The Mercenary - sorry, I missed your posts further down. That’s horrible news, you have my sincere condolences. I hope you have a good group of people round you, and, if not, I’m available to talk any time"

"Hermit Road 8:39 Thu Mar 19 This x1000 I don’t watch or read the news anymore, other than the sports pages, which is pointless at the mo, and the 5pm briefings at present. I’m very selective with what I follow and look at on social media. Now I’m working from home I run round the block in the morning and then run the other way round it in the evening to give me a getting to/from work routine (and ‘the block’ is fucking massive, so shows me how unfit I am) I make sure I try and talk to my parents and/or sister, nieces and nephews every day Neighbours on one side are in their early 70’s and I’m doing bits and pieces for them (curiously, mainly technology based). I’ve enjoyed photography lately and intend to do a class once they’re all up and running again, as well as whisky tasting - although that could (well, has) become a very expensive hobby. All in all I’m feeling happy and positive, despite the forthcoming zombie apocalypse - so much so that I’m starting the withdrawal process from the tablets I’m on"

"Thanks Bungo. Brought her home today. All very surreal and the corona virus situation is making it even more so! There are definitely some very caring people out there who genuinely want to help, which is one bright spot."

"Thanks Bungo. Brought her home today. All very surreal and the corona virus situation is making it even more so! There are definitely some very caring people out there who genuinely want to help, which is one bright spot."

"Do yourself a favour if you are prone to mental health problems. Stay the fuck off social media and stay away from the 'news'. They arent helpful at the best if times but right now, they could be deadly. Watch some funny programmes and good films. Do a bit of exercise every day. Ring people up and most importantly, try to help someone."

The Mercernary 4:16 Wed Mar 18 Blimey! Shit upon shit. Massive condolences from me too. I'd say full marks for coping at all in these circumstances. Hope this place helps a little bit.

"Haha, no soldier of fortune Peckham, it's just a play on my name! Also, no kids so at least they've been spared. Having said that we do have close nieces and nephews who've been devastated. We also lost both our fathers within 6 months of each other in 2016, so the last few years have been very testing."

"Haha, no soldier of fortune Peckham, it's just a play on my name! Also, no kids so at least they've been spared. Having said that we do have close nieces and nephews who've been devastated. We also lost both our fathers within 6 months of each other in 2016, so the last few years have been very testing."

less personal are you a soldier of fortune with your user name?

personal question Mercenary. Have you kids?

Thanks guys. Never thought I’d be one who’d talk about emotional things but it’s definitely helping.

"The Mercernary, my sincerest condolences. I only had a breakdown due to Divorce, god knows how I could have coped in your circumstances. WHO is the perfect outlet for mundane shit to distract you from alot. The Five People You Meet In Heaven by Mitch Albom (Paperback, 2004), I read after my Fathers suicide. It is not religious and really comforted me. At least you have the West Ham family out of your inner circle to speak too. Godbless"

"The Mercernary 4:16 Wed Mar 18 You are not alone. My deepest sympathies, but you are not alone."