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"Been through bad time lately with suffering with this. Dark thoughts as well. I know some posters on here suffer with this. Anyone come through the other side of this shit?

"A number of posters have been yellow carded and told to stay off this thread unless they have anything constructive to add.This is a thread that has been very useful to so many, for any other posters with scores to settle, argue on another thread. This thread is sacrosant.Thank you"

"Good to hear, MPI son."

"Crossed, I offered him the spare I had for Fulham and he responded that he would have loved to but had a Birthday party for his boy. He seems in a good place as far as I can tell."

Anyone heard from Block?

Hopefully ur break kicks off with a West Ham win. Just take it easy mate and do some things that put a smile on your face Jasnik

"It happens Jasnik , enjoy your break ."

Strange having stress today out of nothing . If you guys go through this all the time then I really feel for you.. Lucky I got a holiday from work tomorrow.... All the best.

Haha dont worry I didn't think that. I do now...... üòâ

For me having a decent job is key to lots of things. Take on any decent job is my advice but what do I know. I really want to see you pull through and I get the feeling you’re really on the way to getting there. If I could do something to make it ok for you I would. I’m not gay btw so my interest is genuine

"Not working as yet mate, prob won't until after Xmas unless something comes up too good to turn down. Im doing OK at moemt and building myself up solowly"

Are you working yet Pents? I don’t know your exact position but it’s probably key to everything mate.

Are you working yet Pents? I don’t know your exact position but it’s probably key to everything mate.

home should be fine...away not yet lol dont trust myself

"My lad’s just moved up there, so I’m having a couple of beers with him after work. Working tomorrow as well, hence can’t go to Everton. Definitely have a catch up asap. Meet up for a game, or too soon for that?"

nice to see u here Ade.....whats Muswell Hill all about! Surprised ur not on Turkish forums now following Arthur text for a meet up soon x

They were……;-)

They must have been bad then haha Cheers mate. On the up

Pentonville - Your posts are much more balanced and articulate. Clearly you are in a much better place. Keep busy and keep yourself healthy. Happy to hear you are feeling better. Stay strong.

Much better mate and thank you x

You seem to be getting better Pentonville and I'm glad for you. Nice to see your comments on football too. Well done mate and keep going.

"I bet those suffering really feel the love offered by Zammo. Hahahaha Who is asking for pity or money? I feel like inside ur hurting. Something is wrong in your life. Call one of us, we are here to help you Zammo. How many on this site could you call right now? Maybe your comments as an outsider are misinformed a little. I was merely answering Oxsaw on life at moment but Mike if you saw that answer as me looking for pity or money then Zammo has saved you. Take your hands out of your pocket. Just say no Zammo"

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the main (prob only one) positive is indeed my son. He is an enigma and keeps me pressing forward. Im seeing him 3 days a week at moment and its great. The 4 days without him are tough and im unsure of the future as i need ot work out where im going to live and how im going to pay for it workwise. but another positive is you and everyone else on this site who have been there and know who you are! not so much onwards and upwards but still pressing forward and currently my son being at my side for much of it is enough for now.

"Pents - there are so many positives in your recent posts. Your lad will remember you for who you are, not as who your ex- tries to portray you. My ex- denied me access to my daughters fot 2 years and when she was eventually forced to concede (under threat of imprisonment due to contempt of court) she isisted that is was ""supervised"". She (and the man she insisted my children call ""Dad"") dropped them off at my home (clearly incandescant with rage) and the assigned social worker did whatever he had to do to convince her to relinquish the kids (not that she had much say, two of them shot straight into my home before anybody else could move). After less than 10 minutes with the kids, the social worker stated ""I don't need to be here; you are clearly their father and they all adore you"". Within 2 years, they were all living with me. Bottom line is - you won't ""lose"" your son, whatever shit gets thrown at you."

67 - im with my boy at HMS Victory - ive text you 2 times with no reply? message me with what u need and how i can help and ill call when boy is asleep tonight mate. he is 3.5 and im alone with him so cant take my eyes off him for a call at moment but will tonight

"67, you have had it tough enough already mate. Don't test your limits by living on the south side as well... Stay north and travel.. Good luck mate and sorry I don't know anyone with a room."