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"Been through bad time lately with suffering with this. Dark thoughts as well. I know some posters on here suffer with this. Anyone come through the other side of this shit?

"A number of posters have been yellow carded and told to stay off this thread unless they have anything constructive to add.This is a thread that has been very useful to so many, for any other posters with scores to settle, argue on another thread. This thread is sacrosant.Thank you"

Oh dear.........

Zammo 2:07 Wed Jun 15 I agree and professional help is needed and not some geezers on an internet forum. What makes people on here think they are educated or qualified enough to do this? It could cause more harm than good.

"Zammo appreciate your comments mate, but if you feel that way all you need to do is ignore this thread. The people on here do find it useful and I do know they strike up friendships and contact to help each other out and by some miracle are able to keep each other going. I don't have a clue of the success rate but they are all still on here battling away. As far as being abused and misused if you haven't contributed to the fund then it wouldn't be a problem and as I look after the fund there is no evidence of abuse and even if you were correct in your assumptions about certain posters, which I don't think you are, there are still loads of others who get a lot out of these threads. The reason people post on this particular thread is to help each other with their own experiences and I'm afraid your comments take away the positivity, without any evidence"

"Pentonville is hairy Spotter? Sorry if wrong but getting bored of people using this site as a pity platform. West Ham have some of the most loyal, passionate and generous supporters. This loyalty is being misused and abused. I will help anyone if they are willing to help themselves, it’s always the same faces pleading for help. The help they need won’t be found on an Internet forum. Addiction is awful but helping people that don’t want to be helped is crazy."

Pentonville 2:10 Sat Jun 11 https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-reset-by-sam-delaney/id1549232020 Chill ......

"sam delaney bill gardner on apple podcasts, free"

"One Iron , very resonant & heartfelt message to this middle class Hammer , maximum respect mate ! Sad to hear the stories from Brighton ( my home town ) , we have always been well represented down there . Pents I have texted you , hang in there !"

u gotta pay for it.? oh fuck me no wonder u were pushing it. WOW life really has changed.

bill. im about to end it all. ill watch it now and see how i feel. if anyone has followed my journey they will know my son is everything anfd that cսnt took him away and now my family are apparently bored by me. i came into this world with nothing and i leave it with less. i was a remrkable dad. my dad wasnt as good. i cant do this anynore. i hope ur video is enough bill. ur in sutton im in weyrbidge. come help me mate. i dont know what to do. just a hug.

"Thanks for the link Aberdeen, will give it a listen."

"*** post deleted due to baiting, totally unwarranted on this thread***"

"Thanks aberdeen, hope you are well."

Link to Bills interview podcast. https://samdelaney.substack.com/s/the-reset-extra

"Not one comment on the podcast i done, this is the problem with a lot of men, we dont talk, i dont know any of you, if i can talk.why cant you.come on boys man up."

"I done a podcast for sam delaney, called the reset, its on apple podcasts its on mental health, i hope it helps if you are having a hard time..its number58."

"ISam Delaney the reset on apple podcast, tell me if you think it will do some good"

Hi Pents have whomailed Block

any word on smasher Charley?

"westham67, you have mail."

westham67 - ive left u a voice message - am around for a walk and talk in next few days if u wanna meet up or just bell me back

"westham67, try walking mate,when you fill down.And talk about it to people, i will help out if i can, dont give up mate,its when things seem worse,that you must not quit"

"westham67, try walking mate,when you fill down.And talk about it to people, i will help out if i can, dont give up mate,its when things seem worse,that you must not quit"

Thanks Pents will whomail block in a couple of days if he hasn’t made contact

Charley - i spoke to Block who is gonna contact smasher

"Ted Fenton 6:09 ......Also if anybody knows smasher could they contact him, he posted on the WHO fund stating he was having a bad time... Not sure if Block knows him..If anybody does get in contact can you post so we know all is ok thanks."